Throughout history, there has always been a need for individuals to put up a façade and pretend to be someone or something they are not. These people who are able to deceive others with false promises and mask their true nature, are sometimes referred to as “The Great Pretenders”.
At first glance, it almost appears that those who pretend to be someone they are not are able to gain some advantage and get ahead in life. The reality is, however, that those who live life pretending to be someone or something they are not miss out on many wonderful life experiences and opportunities.
One of the biggest problems with living life through pretense is that over time, it can become a way of life, and this can pose an extreme detriment to your mental health and relationships. Even if you pretend to be someone else, and successfully fool people, it will be a shallow interaction and one without any real depth. It may seem like living through pretense is the easy way to deal with the realities of life, it’s not.
Those who pretend to be someone they are not lack authenticity, something that is greatly valued in both professional and personal relationships. It can be difficult to create and maintain meaningful connections with people because it is impossible to build true trust if you are hiding your true self.
In summary, living life through pretense is a difficult and lonely journey. You will miss out on meaningful experiences and relationships, as well as creating a false sense of security that will only lead to depression and sadness. It is important to strip away the pretense and make friends and connections based on your genuine self. In the end, authenticity is always valued by friends and colleagues. Living your life honestly and truly will help you to live the life you want and lead to the best possible relationships and career opportunities.
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